It just doesn't matter...

There's this perception that if you grow up in a family where the parents remain married, they take you to church, shield you from the worldliness of the world, never abuse you and care for all your basic needs - that you will be fine. Conversely, if you grow up in a home or homes where you are neglected or abused and never taken to the church building - you will grow up to be dysfunctional. But there is no perfect flow chart. God will do what God will do. He will have mercy on whomever He chooses. This is a great mystery to me.